Lover Guide

There are certain differences between men and women not only in their appearance, but mainly in their psychology. As a matter of fact, they are huge. The psychological ones are expressed mostly through differences in perception – the way each gender perceives the other one. For men, it’s enough to have a look at some chick’s body, legs or butt and they are already attracted to her or even aroused by her. It’s quite uncommon for a boy to make a particular move, so that he could win a girl’s heart.

But what about women? Well, you must know that it’s nothing like that! The biggest mistake that a man can make is to think that everything that stimulates their mind corresponds to women’s needs and criteria. That’s just so awfully wrong! A woman gets attracted by much different things than a man does.

Men are always too direct, always in a hurry. Women, on the other hand, prefer giving delicate hints instead. Often a small detail can attract their attention, such an insignificant one, which we may have never even noticed. And yet another thing – many of the qualities that you have built through the years may come quite handy at times. Most of all, you will have to rely on your self-confidence and you don’t have to think over the question “Do I really deserve her” for too long? But most important, for the true and everlasting love, you need to believe that it actually exists!

What do women actually want ?

Don’t expect a straight and comprehensive answer to this question.  Sorry, but we must admit that women are much more complicated beings than men are. They like much different features, as we already said earlier in this article. No matter the woman’s individuality, there are some peculiar characteristics which every woman wants to find in her beloved.

Leadership – it’s a well known fact that women like strong men. It’s not the physical strength we’re talking about, but the impression a man makes when bearing responsibility. He must know how to act like a real leader – strong-willed, independent and confident in his own abilities and qualities. He should make the impression of a successful person. Women like that!

Charm – now, this is something unique and strictly individual. Everybody likes charming people, right? But what exactly means for a man to be charming. Is it the ability to make the woman beside you to feel comfortable and pleased while in your company? Yes, most probably…

Dynamism – it is believed that women are attracted by dominating men. Well, we (the administrators of this blog) are men, so we can’t be absolutely sure of that, but since we took it that leadership is a very important quality, we must also accept the same assertion about dynamism. No, women don’t get impressed by flabby, dependent and hesitating men. Remember -  always do what you have decided to, hesitation is a  bad adviser in this case!

Aggressiveness – no, we are not talking about physical aggressiveness, but for such against life itself. It’s the ability to know exactly what you want of life and which is more important to know how to achieve it. Of course, you’ll need to do everything you can to reach your goals.

Unpredictability – women are fond of unpredictable men, probably because of the fact that they like pleasant surprises. Predictable men are boring, don’t you agree? The ability to be inventive and enterprising will be well accepted, don’t doubt that. Whatever you do, just be yourself.

Lifestyle and fashion – no matter what you think over this subject, women do pay attention to men’s lifestyle and appearance (clothes, hygiene, etc.), always keep that in mind!

Of course, the list is way too longer. There are still loads of things that we are about to discuss later in loverguide.info. But for now, just focus over those few tips and try to master them. That will be a good start. The rest will come by itself…